Believing in right and wrong allows the critics to condemn you at will. Most of us, perhaps all of us, have been taught to scold others, and it is clear where we learned that miserable trait.
But if you drop the duality of right and wrong, others become powerless to scold and control you. And this doesn’t imply society can live without rules, it can’t, but you can live to a higher law, the law of Understanding.
The need for Approval is the beginning, and from there we agree to the code of right and wrong. The only reason we seek approval is because experience confirms our belief that we don’t have it. (Just ask your critics if you are worthy.)
This circle–need, right and wrong, scolding–is only a program. Wake up to the program inside you and the whole game falls away.